How do I know if this is Right for Me?

By reading through this form you have been triggered with a feeling.  Either you recognize this is something you need to do, even if you are scared, or you don't.  The truth is... there are many different pain management and growth adventure models in the world. Many of them are really good.  The Modern Day Warrior however is the one I discovered and refined and used in my own life.  I lived it.  And I hate seeing people in pain or languishing in desperation.  I get lit up by people who face their fears and heal and grow.  So I created this movement to help the world in their intimacies and beyond. If you have any lingering questions, drop me a line and we'll get on the phone and talk.  Deep down you already know if this is for you or not. 

Are There Scholarships Available?

No.  A full investment is required brothers, or the buy in isn't there and the results you want don't occur.

What Can I Really Expect?

An intense life changing experience, a pattern interrupt, and a road map for success with a brotherhood to challenge and support you all the way.


Yes, you will have the opportunity to join the Brotherhood to integrate your hard fought gains.

I can only make a part of the Workshop. Will that be okay?

No.  It's a journey and you will be there from start to finish.

I've Attended a previous Modern Day Warrior workshop, will I gain something from this one?

This new version is completely different.  

What is the difference between Modern Day Warrior workshop and Shades of Intimacy?

The Modern Day Warrior Workshop is for men only.  The Shades of Intimacy Workshop are for both men and women.  The Elemental Feminine Workshop is for women only.

Are Lunches and Dinner Included in the Tuition Price?  Is housing included in the tuition price?

Some meals will be provided.  At certain times you will be asked to go to lunch or dinner with your brothers and the tab will be on you.

How far will this take me?

These tools will revolutionize your life... if you put them into practice. It takes a lot of hard work, commitment and a definite sense of humor. But if you persist, the life you are living now will seem as but a shadow compared to what you become.

Passage—immediate passage! the blood burns in my veins!
Away, O soul! hoist instantly the anchor! 
Cut the hawsers—haul out—shake out every sail!
Have we not stood here like trees in the ground long enough?
Have we not grovell’d here long enough, eating and drinking like mere brutes?
Have we not darken’d and dazed ourselves with books long enough?

Sail forth! steer for the deep waters only!
Reckless, O soul, exploring, I with thee, and thou with me;
For we are bound where mariner has not yet dared to go,
And we will risk the ship, ourselves and all.

O my brave soul! 
O farther, farther sail!
O daring joy, but safe! Are they not all the seas of God?
O farther, farther, farther sail!

-Walt Whitman