14 years.
Not perfect years. Not always easy years.
But sacred years.
Marriage isn’t a fairy tale. It’s storms and stillness. Fire and ashes. Laughter and tears.
It’s two people choosing — again and again — to stay. To lean in. To sharpen each other.
Jennie is my Queen. My fiercest mirror. My wild swamp woman. My softest place to land.
And this is the work, brothers. This is Shades of Intimacy. This is Modern Day Warrior.
To hold the container. To show up with presence. To listen when it’s hard. To bring direction when the way is foggy.
To lead — not by control — but by strength of heart.
Our life has been an adventure.
We’ve done the wild things — Burning Man dust storms, sexual fire, sacred risk.
We’ve done the simple things — porch stillness, yard work, cats curled at our feet.
We touch. We talk. We move. We confront our own bullshit and keep growing.
This path of polarity has been profound. It’s not just therapy — it’s a spiritual practice that is relentlessly practical. It creates a charge, a fire of attraction that most couples lose. That fire fuels not only our intimacy, but our voices. Our gifts. Our offering to the world.
14 years in, I can tell you this:
If you step into the fire of marriage with awareness, it will burn away who you were… and forge who you were meant to be.
And when you do it right?
She fills it with radiance.
The fire continues.
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